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Dumpster Juice
04-14-2010, 01:41 PM
The married dudes.....

Did you ever consider marrying a girl from another race? If you did marry a girl from another race, why?

What race did you primarily date growing up? Did you stick to your own kind out of tradition and obligation because it's the "right thing to do"?

All my foreign friends primarily grew up living and loving the Hip Hop Culture. All they did was mess with black girls. At the end of the day, most stuck to their own kind.....how the hell does a complete 360 like that take place? Even though some dont admit it, family and tradition had a lot to do with it. It's almost as if they did it because like I mentioned earlier...it was just the right thing to do. I can't live my life pleasing family and friends man.....don't like who i marry, fuck off

Mojo
04-14-2010, 02:09 PM
I never considered marrying anybody other than my wife...and Amerie. lol I don't, however, object to marrying outside my race. I've dated girls that aren't black, and I don't see the big deal.

This Muslim Pakistani dude I used to work with was attracted to black women all his life. He was really serious with this black Trini girl and even proposed to her, but he ended up calling it off and breaking up with her because his people weren't feeling him marrying a black chick. It was definitely about race because the girl was of the same sect of Islam as him and everything. He continued to date black girls because that's what he liked, but he ended up marrying another Paki chick.

Smoka
04-14-2010, 02:46 PM
I dont think I could've married a woman that didn't have atleast a caramel tint to her..lol Its a cultural thing with me.. I dont have a problem with marrying outside of your race,but I always wondered how things would be if a situation came about and you had to pick sides.. Like attending a family reunion and someone disrespected you/your wife by yelling racial obscenities.. If a child is born to the inter-racial couple,what if Grandma said I aint watching no Black baby..Or uncle willie "saying get that blue eyed devil out of here" shit like that scared me so I stayed with my own kind

Mercury
04-14-2010, 05:00 PM
my mom would be so happy that I even got married that she wouldn't even care. She's getting grandbaby fever LOL. She's the only sibling w/o grandchildren and she's about to retire.

I'm pretty much open to any race but I haven't really "dated" outside of black other than sex. I just don't meet a lot of different cultured people in my day to day dealings.

I see a LOT of DOPE asian girls around richmond all the time but the ones I see are always with another asian guy. I never catch one on the solo but I'm like damn she looks good

Cherry Almond Jergen's
04-14-2010, 05:13 PM
my mom would be so happy that I even got married that she wouldn't even care. She's getting grandbaby fever LOL. She's the only sibling w/o grandchildren and she's about to retire.

I'm pretty much open to any race but I haven't really "dated" outside of black other than sex. I just don't meet a lot of different cultured people in my day to day dealings.

I see a LOT of DOPE asian girls around richmond all the time but the ones I see are always with another asian guy. I never catch one on the solo but I'm like damn she looks good

Asians usually stick to their own kind.....they stay united...lol growing up, all the Asians I knew hung with other Asians....

I'm open to other races but I don't go or do anything that involves another race..lol I've only gone to a handful of white/mixed clubs and I got no play. With the Urban scene, I can pull woman without even trying. I stand out more. I'm open to new shit though...just never hung around anybody who wanted to do new shit...that's my fault I guess

geo1976
04-14-2010, 05:24 PM
I think communities matter too. Asians all tend to live closely, shit they even have their own towns. And if they don't live together, they typically live in a white neighborhood, which is why you see some asians with white men. My brother dated a gorgeous asian girl once, but she grew up around spanish people, so I assume thats the reason. She never dated an asian man she once said. And around here I notice that alot of the white girls that go out with black guys are really really ghetto white girls.

Elevate Get High
04-14-2010, 05:30 PM
had a Thai chick propose to me, dated her for years, she still would visit ;) even after she married somone else, she about to have a kid now though so I don't see that happening anymore

I'm stuck on black chicks right now, white chicks bore me, I think it's cause I'm white and I like opposites, why i wanna be fucking someone that looks like me? man I was all the way in Japan in december and started hanging out with first black chick I literally saw in Tokyo, I got problems

the racial tension sort of sucks though, my sister has had a black boyfriend for years and they still step softly around grandma, just a different generation

Mojo
04-14-2010, 05:41 PM
I was just telling my wife yesterday how I rarely see Asian(Chinese, Viet, Korean, and Japanese) women going for black dudes. It's usually an Asian woman with a white dude, but then again it might be the area I live.

Mercury
04-14-2010, 07:48 PM
I know a filipino girl that dates exclusively black and a chinese girl that dates exclusively black as well. The flip girl likes her own kind but there just aint that many of them where she's at. The chinese girl was around her own but she says she had zero attraction to others of her race sexually. Her father actually disowned her b/c she dates blacks

Dragonspit Jones
04-14-2010, 09:22 PM
I was about to marry a Japanese chick. Didn't work out.
Thank God.

A lot of Asian chicks out here in Hampton Roads mess with black dudes.

They are mostly the Koreans and some Filipinos.

I hardly see my Japanese girls and Chinese messing with black dudes.

Most of the Filipino and White girls (mistizas) I know....mess with Black dudes straight up.

I you're racist....I don't advise dating outside your race.


by the way....

Black don't crack.
a lot of these exotic chicks...........with the exception of Sade and Gloria Estefan..... fall off extra hard when they get older.

geo1976
04-14-2010, 09:44 PM
by the way....

Black don't crack.
a lot of these exotic chicks...........with the exception of Sade and Gloria Estefan..... fall off extra hard when they get older.

I don't know man, Stiflers mom can still get it.lol